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The 5 Stages Of Sissification

The 5 Stages Of SissificationOver the years as an LDW Mistress, I have had significant exposure to many men pouring their hearts out regarding their own unique brands of sexuality and perversions.  This has, in turn, led me to various conclusions regarding human sexual behavior.

My readers are aware, I am fascinated and intrigued by the male phenotype known in the vernacular as “the sissy.”   “The sissy” type has been reported on extensively and can be found distributed throughout the country with a slightly higher prevalence in larger cities like New York, Los Angeles and, of course, within the high walls of the Enchantrix Empire.

For this unique phenotype to fully emerge, it requires the young male to successfully navigate and overcome various social and psychological obstacles, any of which has the potential to derail his sexual journey.  The developmental stages he experiences are as follows:

Stage 1 – Denial: The young male has hit his sexual peak and considered bedding a female to be a “victory” of sorts.  He is maturing but is still slack-jawed at the site of or mere hint of bodacious ta-tas.  He says he wants pussy, but deep down is afraid of being swallowed entirely by it.  He has nightmares of the vagina but still holds onto the false belief that he is Superman.

Stage 2 – Anger:  When the male recognizes that denial can no longer continue, he becomes easily irritated when close to opportunities for “meat gazing,” such as in a locker room.  He does not know why he has become fascinated by penises all of a sudden or why he has urges to wear nylon gossamer and open-toed heels.  This phase is best described by his repeated internal rhetoric of “Why me?” or “How could this be happening?”

Stage 3 – Bargaining:  By this time, the male hopes to salvage what is left of his masculine persona.  He tries desperately to negotiate the two worlds he finds himself in.  Often, males in this phase will seek out well-hung trannies to begin learning the art of cock sucking…”But, hey, she’s got tits, so I’m not really gay!”…  The male has become quite a bit lighter in the loafers if you know what I mean, and no longer smells like a used sweat sock.  Instead, he leaves a delightful floral and fruity scent in his wake.

Stage 4 – Depression:  In this phase, the male despairs about his loss of manhood.  He is calling his Mistress almost daily hoping for some last reassurance that his Y chromosome is still intact. Despite his anhedonia, he is now experimenting with different makeup, looking for just the right one to highlight his rosebud cheeks.  Bust forms are often used at this point, and his gait is now closer to prancing than his usual slouched shuffle.

Stage 5 – Acceptance:  There is finally capitulation and the awareness that he can no longer fight who he truly is.  At this point, he has successfully navigated these rough seas to the point of being rightly referred to as a “Cream Puff.”  He…or shall I say she…is beautiful.  The yoga pants look great on her, her hips are wider, and she is frequenting bars as the resident fag-maker hoping to get lucky, making converts out of the good-looking gents imbibing on ale.

And so the circle has been closed for that particular journey and the satisfied male, now wearing a dress, has fully integrated his femme self.

So you see…becoming a sissy is not as easy as you may think.  Also, for all you Cream Puffs out there, I just want to say …job well done and keep swaying those sexy hips of yours!

 

22 comments to The 5 Stages Of Sissification

  • Missy laflamme

    Well yes I agree there are at least 5 steps ! Mine were a little different but still the same ! The sissy spiral ! Omg ! All in all out panties only for sex, okay 25% or 49% and other trannies somewhat and sometimes lingerie, Domme women who make me do it ect fully dressed panties shaved sometimes some mall shopping and bi ?, okay panties full time and only
    Panties shaved full time plucked adopted a perfume as mine no women want to be a woman painted swishey lots of home practice gaga. All stages mastirbate only as a woman ! Then stage 5. All femm want big cocks date men only shop for women’s clothes and totally let the women know so they really see and tell. And they do tell ! I think I am headed for stage 6 ? Lol ? Oh behave !

  • Petey cream puff

    This fits me to a T.., I’ve been in all 5 steps of this and realized if I can’t get the girl I’ll become one. This all started at 13 where my aunt would give me lipstick kisses before bed/then in middle school on bus ride home girl would sit next to me put makeup/lipstick/perfume on me/16 step mom sitting on my lap aftet school giving me lipstick kisses on my cheeks with her friend daughter putting makeup on me. Then 1998 wearing my roommates gf bra/lipstick which was what made me a cream puff girl forever with trips to Victoria’s Secret to buy bras/perfumes/lipsticks/lotions/panties/makeup/slips/on line purchases of dresses/boots/tops/everything girlish. Then now with me coming out of closet with my masseuse about my crossdressing where she’s had me trying on dresses/measuring/fitting me in bra/smelling girlish with perfumes/lotions after every massage. I’ve accepted this as I’ll always be a cream puff girl forever by her and ldw.

    Ps I asked my masseuse if she wanted to help me try on blushes/foundation/lipsticks and she said yes!! I want to have her do this to me on monthly basis and hope she will. If so I’ll do what she asks/wants with out question.

  • Funny thing for me is I never went through an anger stage. I went from denial straight to bargaining. Though my bargaining was with the thought of being a Cuckold and justfying my desires that way. Now I’m fully accepted that I’m a Sissy though I’m still in the closet.

  • Question

    Hello!

    I don’t think you really refer to women as trannies? I do not think it is “gay” for a man to be attracted to a trans female.

    • Cindy

      Question, thank you for your comment. In my experience in talking to men who are experiencing a blurring of the traditional lines regarding gender and sexuality, most struggle with the preconceived thoughts they were socialized on and there “new” interests. Your point is well taken.

      • Question

        Thank you for replying.

        I know your post was mostly satirical and there is some intentional kinky humiliation there, but I think there is a clear demarcation between a man being attracted to a man and a man being attracted to a trans female.

        Happy Thanksgiving!

  • violet

    Wow Ms Cindy You most certainly know us, and have done the homework for sure, I can relate to most of the phases for sure , I must admit, its a very complicated subject thanks for the post !!

  • violet

    You do it very well Ms Cindy, Happy Thanksgiving to You, and all the ladies on this site !!!

  • This is so not a joke. Greater concentrations can be found in the larger more cosmopolitan cities, and it has nothing to do with the popular women’s magazine. I think it’s the pure, undiluted access to raw fashion that contributes to the true sissy awakening. After that, it’s only downhill from there, and we’ll always be at the bottom of the hill to catch them.

  • It is very true that becoming a sissy is not an easy process. I can think of no other Mistress more qualified than you when it comes to identifying the stages of sissy acceptance. It takes a while to adjust, but I’m sure you have helped many gurls live up to their potential!

  • susan9316

    There are also the stages of understanding, commitment, and celebration. The moment i tried on my first pair of panties as a full on adult i discovered something i had vaguely felt but now began to understand. Drawn ever further a step at a time i am committed to pursuing and embracing the sissy inside. It feels like home and a path of self improvement and oh o sexy too. So i am pleased to celebrate it – i am a sissy and wanting to celebrate the girl inside.

  • Missy laflamme

    Then the acceptance and cravings happen and next obvious looking
    For a boyfriend ! Or as many as possible and the glory hole omg I want to go and be miss glory make lots of new friends ? Flaming !!

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