What’s Your Masturbation Secret, Mystery Man?
Do you fantasize about cross dressing while pulling at your pud? Maybe you want a beautiful stern teacher to punish you by making you wear fem wear? That’s a great way for men to indulge their cross-dressing yearnings while avoiding any responsibility for them…”I would never do such a naughty thing like wearing women’s clothing, Mistress Cindy…she forced me to do it!” This is why you need beginners guide to cross dressing.
Cross Dressing Adds Intense Surprise While Masturbating
There are also many cross dressers who enjoy dressing up and having their wives or partners join in with them. This openness and subsequent acceptance ultimately works to increase intimacy and adds intense sexual pleasure for both parties.
I’ve observed that men who cross dress often experience an increase in their desires when they approach middle age. I can only imagine the need to drape oneself in delicate beauty becomes harder to suppress as time marches on. In retrospect, most cross-dressers recognize their interest in fem wear began at an early age…their curiosity was piqued, for example, after seeing their mother’s bra hanging up to dry. Who knows…maybe the male desire to wear female clothes and sexy underwear has the same origins as their desire to be sexually penetrated?
Masturbation Brings Immense Sexual Pleasure
For some, cross dressing is a fetish that brings immense sexual pleasure while satisfying emotional needs. This is the reason why so many males masturbate while wearing female clothes lest they are unable to experience an orgasm.
There is no doubt in my mind that cross-dressing is more common than people realize…mainly because it is most often done in secret and not accepted by polite society. But, hey, if you’re comfortable to being en femme and to be seen in public then go for it…all the power to you, girlfriend!
Cross Dressing And Masturbation To Boot
Cross dressing cuts through all strata of men’s world…it’s not just the doctor or lawyer who enjoys going from Michael to Michelle, but men from all professions and trades regardless of financial status enjoy indulging in the feminine.
So…if my words in this post ring true for you, don’t try to fight your cross-dressing urges as that will only result in much stronger urges later on. It is sincerely my hope that you can feel free enough to try on women’s clothing and act out any and all of your sissy fantasies. Let it begin with your Mistress Cindy.
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It started for me when girl on bus would pick out guy and she would sit next to him and put makeup on him. One day that guy was me. Out of nowhere I was siting by myself and she sat next to me. Within minutes she put blush on me and I tried to rub it off and she giggled then got mad as she put more blush/foundation on me then she sprayed me In perfume and put lipstick on me. I was near window so I couldn’t escape. She told me I look cute & adorable in makeup/lipstick and smelled so pretty. I was stunned and embarrassed but I had hard on. It was hit how she did this to me out of no where. I was worried and trying to figure out how to not to get exposed by my stepmom. I went home after this and I went to kitchen to get soap to wipe off makeup then I noticed something on wall. As I was looking my step mom put her arms around me and gave me a lipstick kiss. She said I was under mistletoe and she giggled at me saying I look cute with blush on with lipstick and I smelled pretty. She then had me sit down and then sat in my lap and kissed me again. I went to bath room to see lipstick imprints on my cheeks but she told me not to wipe off lipstick. Then after seeing lipstick marks on my cheeks she told me to sit down and she kissed me again and again. I felt so weak,helpless,submissive and feminine. Her neighbor friend came over and giggled and said I look so cute. This is where it started for me. This would continue for 2 years after school everyday. I even snuck into her room tried on her lipstick/perfume/dresses. I think she knew as she would tease me. But she never told anyone in family as long as I did as told.
1998 is where crossdressing stayed with me forever. I was waiting to do laundry and my roommates girlfriend had both machines full as I walked out I noticed her bra in basket. I went to try it on to see how I looked and in bath room she had lipstick in there and I tried it on. I went to my bedroom and masturbated. That’s where it began for me. I started buying bras/panties/lipsticks/perfumes/lotions, eventually dresses and women’s clothes/boots/heels. It’s just how fabrics feel against my soft skin and how helped,weak,feminine and submissive I become wearing women’s clothes/makeup/lipstick. It’s only way I can get hard and off. Now that you caught me in your bra/panty set I’m totally busted and owned by you and Ms Gia. I really wanted to get busted by you but was shy and scared with your reaction. With you calling me cream puff that means you own me and I’m just that your sissy doll. Any chance you can tell the other mistress? It’s what I am and I truly belong to you as my strict feminization mistress who has no intention of letting me be a guy again.
Peter, Your secret has been revealed. Now all the Mistresses know what a delicate flower you are ready to be plucked and ready to be all made up as a true sissy, indeed. The sissy journey continues..
Did you tell all the mistresses that you caught me wearing your bra/panty set in your closet and did my makeup & hair:0 my breasts are teally sore and painful:( and I’m having difficult time using my hand with long white tip nails:(. I know Ms Audrey said it would be an honor to have her turn and make me a cream puff sissy:( she turned as well as dressed her brother into a girl and she wants to do the same to me:0 I told her that I belong to you & Ms Gia. If it’s ok with both of you,also MsLena,MsViolet & Ms Kaylee want do the same. All 4 said in better off as a sissy doll then a guy and I’m to cute and adorable to put up a fight. They all know what a cream puff sissy I am:( did you show and tell with video of me in your bra/panty set?
Well, Ms. Cindy, they need someone to blame when they’re dressing up in panties and other frilly things. Their minds begin to spin with the implications of their masturbation secret! Can they be a “real man” while a thong string rubs their ass in ALL the right places? What about when they have a wet spot in their panties? Really, you MUST have been the one to make them do it!
Ms. Piper, Sissies must always carry an extra pair of panties and it should be readily available in purse, especially for wet spot accidents.
You know, Ms. Cindy, I think the fact that such a deep love of crossdressing transcends age, SES, profession, social “position,” and more is a true testament to the intense appeal, myriad of purposes, and genuine enjoyment that crossdressing holds for so many men. Thank you for reminding us all that it’s okay, and it SHOULD be enjoyed in every way possible. 🙂
Ms.EmmaJane, Of course, sissies should not be shunned. After all, they are part of society as well.
You are so correect about the desire to wear womens things getting stronger as we age ! Great just what I want to do wear silly lacy bras and panties now that I am losing my girly figure !
Piper I blame women for this 100% If you silly gals didn’t wear this crap we never would
Sonnydi, Whining and exemplifying jealousy just like a true sissy would. Is it the woman’s fault, after all she gets to wear such beautiful clothing lucky for her, right?
I remember I had a pet ask me if he was a sissy just because he was into wearing pretty lacey panties and frilly dresses. He asked, “Where does one draw the line and know for sure?” I said, “The panty line of course!!!”
But don’t they realize we love it when they can admit it since it makes it even more fun to see them en femme with an actual smile of appreciation on their face as opposed to feigning a pretend scowl? lol 😉 Great post!
Ms. Fiona La Femme Fatale, Absolutely, it makes for a more interesting experience when sissies dance around before admitting who they really are.
I am starting to Believe there is an Evil Plot by Todays Women. Growing up I laughed at my sisters and other women for the silly ruffly panties and silky slips they wore, but now as I get older I find the urge to wear these silly things getting stronger. About once a week now I find myself swishing about in a bra, panty and slip. This has to be a plot or spell. I talked to a Large Ebay seller of vintage slips and she found it hilarious that I didn’t realize that of the 1000 slips she sold last year she estimated at least 900 went to men ! She says her sales of slips and frilly nighties to men increases every year. She said she and the other ladies who sell lingerie find it hilarious that now men are the ones wearing the silly Frilly things ! I think my picture says it all ! I am not happy about this
Sonnydi, Aww…men really are the new women. I think men have been wearing lingerie for very a long time. It’s just more prevalent now, due to the “transgender movement.”
I agree sunnydi. The urges are to strong to resist as I find myself wearing bras/panties/slips around the house as well along with leggings/yoga pants as well as pumps/ankle boots/knee high boots.Wow with 900 slips going to men!!and increasing every year. Women do have more power and control and with them wearing sexy outfits/dresses/leggings/yoga pants its reason I quit going to gym its to much a distraction and yes I want to wear what they wear. Its reason why ive never had girlfriend but that’s going to have to change If I want girlfriend. I want to come out of closet but am afraid what they will think. This fetish will be part of me forever and Ill just open up to girls once I know then well enough. Lets face it womens clothes are better then guys clothes and my buying of them is increasing every year. Ms Cindy has me as her cream puff sissy girl and there going back or getting out.
Peter, Your feminine fetish isn’t going anywhere soon. I agree cream puff sissy, women’s’ wear is very sexy in variety this is why you can never return to men’s drabby collection line of clothing.
So many of our sissy and cross dressing callers are men in the middle of their lives. I don’t believe that these are men that have suddenly ‘arrived’ at their fetish after all these years, but rather men that have been harboring urges for so long that they cannot hide it anymore. They have secret clothing stashes and plan their dress-up around other people’s schedules so they are not interrupted, and they know who they are. More importantly, they’re not sorry for it and they shouldn’t be. I love seeing a younger man able to embrace it, but I’ve got special respect for those that have decided that they have to be themselves no matter what.
Ms. Amber, I am right with you on this, once a man accepts his feminine side he does get to be himself no matter what. 🙂
Cindy, thanks for your insight and understanding. And, of course I masturbate. After we spoke, I worked it out. Thirteen years, not twelve.
Lou Laurent, I am so glad you worked it out. Only you initially know where your pleasure zones are.